Are you limerent?

Limerent? What does that word even mean? I have to confess, I only came across the word very recently (thanks to a book recommendation by relationship coach, Ali Hendry). Ali told me about “Living with Limerence: a guide for the smitten” by Dr L: Limerence...

Who was your first crush?

I was 17 and working a Saturday job in between studying for my A Levels and making new friends at the small-town Technical College I’d just transferred to. Before that, I’d spent a year at a city centre Sixth Form College. I was missing my friends and my old,...

“I needed to hear those stories”

Join storyteller Marie Louise Cochrane of Red Velvet Revelry and me as we talk about the importance of hearing women’s happy stories about sex and sexuality. And find out how you can get involved in a radical new project… Marie Louise is a professional...

Making love last a lifetime

In my writing ‘play’ shop (Writing as Your Sexual self – you can access it here) I shared a prompt: “write a love-lust letter, either to yourself, or someone else.” Here’s what I wrote in response to that prompt. You can watch and...