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stories
Down By the River
Erotic short story on Sugarbutch
Content: Surprise BDSM, flogging, singletail, daddy/girl, butch/femme, outdoor sex, fisting, biting.
The Golden Hour
Erotic short story on Sugarbutch
Content: daddy/girl, age play, spanking, fingering, good girl. All characters are consenting adults.
Sweet Before Spicy
Erotic short story on Substack – a story in 3 parts
Content: daddy/girl, mommy/girls, butch/femme, kink.
A Boy at My Feet
Erotic short story co-written with (the) Orlando Silver! High femme mistress and transboy smut.
Content: butch/femme, kink.
Melissa's Sweet Music
meditations
Meet Your Sexual Self
23 minutes
Connect to Your Sexual Energy
17 minutes
interviews & podcasts
Intimacy Matters
Nicola Foster (sex and relationship therapist) and Jason Porthouse talk with Anna Sansom about the importance of desire and of cultivating our desires. We tackle head-on what we can do if we feel like we’ve lost touch with desire all together, and how to get it back.
Pleasure in the Pause
What happens when the stories we’ve been told about sexuality and ageing start to unravel?
What if the truth of our pleasure has nothing to do with youth and everything to do with the courage to get curious?
Gabriella Espinosa (midlife pleasure expert) interviews Anna Sansom about writing your way back to desire.
Fifty Shades of Gender
Talking about the energetic space between people, being responsive vs being reactive, how boxes can be constricting as well as expansive, playing with gender and sexuality, reclaiming the word ‘dyke’, self-healing through sexual experiences, liberating ourselves and writing our own story, pursuing desire, and why it’s more than okay to want more out of life.
Writing and Thriving
Sally-Shakti Willow & Anna Sansom get juicy in our conversation around writing Erotica, queering language and gender, and whether it might be possible to write erotic fantasy as a way of manifesting a hotter sex life.
DIVA Magazine Relationship Room #1
Talking about desire, love, and lust, and the book ‘Desire Lines’, with Relationship Coach, Ali Hendry.
DIVA Magazine Relationship Room #2
Talking about menopause and hope, and the book ‘Wake Up Your Dragon’, with Relationship Coach, Ali Hendry.
DIVA Magazine Relationship Room #3
Third time’s a charm! In this episode, Ali Hendry (relationship coach) and Anna Sansom talk about the book Sex Meets Life, the power of writing and learning through stories, and other books that have changed the relationship landscape.
WRITE YOUR OWN EROTICA
How to Write Erotica
Recording of a one-hour workshop.
Erotic Writing Guidebook
Free download