Are you limerent?

Limerent? What does that word even mean? I have to confess, I only came across the word very recently (thanks to a book recommendation by relationship coach, Ali Hendry). Ali told me about “Living with Limerence: a guide for the smitten” by Dr L: Limerence...

4 top tips for writing erotica

I was recently asked what advice I’d give to someone who wanted to start writing erotica. There’s lots to say about this (and you can read more in my free PDF), but here are my 4 top tips… 1) Reading other people’s writing helps you to learn what makes a good story,...

Growing desire into pleasure

Desire is longing, anticipation, yearning, having and not having. When I write about desire I often feel it as an ache, an empty space waiting to be filled, a delicious potential. Pleasure is in the moment, embodied, felt and received. When I write about pleasure it...

Playtime! Would you like to write as your erotic self?

I had such fun with this! As the grand finale of the #UnboundBookClub event for Desire Lines, I delivered a one-hour playshop on writing as your sexual self. Join me as I share: How and why I started writing erotica.My 3 top tips for writing as your sexual self.3...

Wine, nibbles, and an erotic book club

One of my favourite people in the whole world to talk with about desire – and Desire Lines – is Nicola Humber (author, mentor, publisher and UNBOUND woman). We recently chatted as part of the Desire Lines #UnboundBookClub… In this video we talk...