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Can you feel your sexual energy?
Here's a recording of my guided visualisation to help you connect to your sexual energy...find out how it feels...and what message it has for you... Please sign up to receive...
“We haven’t got out of bed all weekend…”
Sam Evans is a former nurse and co-founded the online sex toy company, Jo Divine, with her husband Paul, in 2007. I invited Sam to join me in an Intimate Conversation because I love her passion and enthusiasm, and her inclusive approach, to helping people enjoy a...
Who was your first crush?
I was 17 and working a Saturday job in between studying for my A Levels and making new friends at the small-town Technical College I’d just transferred to. Before that, I’d spent a year at a city centre Sixth Form College. I was missing my friends and my old,...
“I needed to hear those stories”
Join storyteller Marie Louise Cochrane of Red Velvet Revelry and me as we talk about the importance of hearing women's happy stories about sex and sexuality. And find out how you can get involved in a radical new project... [su_youtube...
Her Desire
She made eye contact with me the moment I entered the pub. It wasn’t fate; it was design. Her text messages had been specific and compelling. I arrived at precisely 10pm, she gestured to a seat at the bar and I waited there while she served her customer. Then I...
Could you be demisexual?
A lovely person invited me to talk about demisexuality as part of my Ask Anna series. Here I talk about: ✨What demisexuality is ✨How mainstream culture reinforces only a narrow view of sexuality ✨Why it's good to open up discussion and give platform to more variety...
So, you want to start writing erotica? Here’s a beginner’s guide
I recently asked people to share their questions with me and I've been recording short videos as my answers. This week, I answer your questions about getting started with writing your own erotica. I talk about: How to find the time to write.How to know what to...
You + Me + the Sea
We will need to find an isolated beach. I want absolute privacy and seclusion with you – I’ll share you with the elements, but that is all. I’ll make a shelter for us for when we want to rest, and I’ll lay a blanket to keep the sand away from our most tender places....
The radical act of pleasure
I was thrilled to talk with Lara Waldman - The Abundance Activator - for another of my Intimate Conversations! I love the way that Lara brings together her 25 years of experience in self-development, transformation, and healing work, to offer a new approach to...
Five things I’ve learned about desire
1. Retaining my desire for desire is what matters to me most. As long as I can feel my desire for desire, I know I’ll be able to navigate the seas of change. 2. Staying curious and creative allows me to stay open to finding and enjoying new desires. My desire is not a...
Growing desire into pleasure
Desire is longing, anticipation, yearning, having and not having. When I write about desire I often feel it as an ache, an empty space waiting to be filled, a delicious potential. Pleasure is in the moment, embodied, felt and received. When I write about pleasure it...
PleasurePractices #4: Garden of delights
One of my long-held fantasies centres on having a private, outdoor space where I can be naked and commune with the elements. I want to stand in a rainstorm and feel the water drenching my hair and skin, running down my back, and wetting my lips. I want to press my...