Desire Lines – the book – was based on the first 50 years of my life. Most of my new writing is now happening over on Substack and I’d love to share it with you. I’m calling it Desire Lines 2.0 and it is an exploration of what comes next… (a...
You can’t look directly at the Sun. You can try a surreptitious glance when the clouds come over. But, other than that, you can only look when he is low on the horizon; hidden apart from his spreading glimmer of fire. We worship the Sun… and yet – he does not allow us...
What if the goal of sex wasn’t (just) orgasm? A writing prompt and my reponse: If it’s just about coming, I’m not interested. If, however, it’s about spending time with you, skin touching, breath synchronising… If it’s about exploring my skin with your...
I want to reach out and touch you and never stop reaching until my fingers have sunk as deep as they can go into your generous flesh; until my fists mould handfuls of you and you overflow my palms; until I have gathered up as much of you as I can into my arms and I...
A short erotic interlude written in response to the writing prompt: In My Nature It was the ice from the puddle that she wanted. Not a sanitised, conformist, cube from the freezer – she wanted the thin shard, complete with dirt and leaves, and a small twig embedded in...
Written in response to the prompt: Lost and Found As a self-confessed neat freak, you’ve taken an age to get things ready. I’ve been waiting: showered, dried, and dressed in only a robe; sitting on the sofa just like you told me to. There is nothing to distract me...
Limerent? What does that word even mean? I have to confess, I only came across the word very recently (thanks to a book recommendation by relationship coach, Ali Hendry). Ali told me about “Living with Limerence: a guide for the smitten” by Dr L: Limerence...
Join this fast-paced and fun session to help you become more confident about finding words for your wants and expressing your erotic. The session was recorded for the Health and Pleasure Festival...
#1Review your beliefs about masturbation and self-pleasure… Is it something that only ‘other’ people do? Is it a second choice to sex with another person? Is it something you can only do on your own? Can you only do it if you have a sex toy to play with? Once you’ve...
Midlife can be a time when we review and question *everything*. It can be a time when we no longer put up with pleasing everyone else – and sacrificing ourselves in the process. It can be a time of letting go, stepping into the unknown, and discovering new things...
