What if the goal of sex wasn’t (just) orgasm?
A writing prompt and my reponse:
If it’s just about coming, I’m not interested.
If, however, it’s about spending time with you, skin touching, breath synchronising…
If it’s about exploring my skin with your fingertips, your lips…tasting me…
If it’s about finding pleasure in the moment, moment by moment – pleasure without pressure…
if it’s about surrendering, relishing, being fully present to what is – not what may be…
If it’s about permission to get to know you more fully, sinking deeper, learning your story through your body’s response…
If it’s about trust and letting go and knowing you will love me whatever the outcome (as I love you)…
Then, yes, count me in, sign me up, I’ll be there.